“Ask Dorothy” – My Life Is Unraveling. I Am In the Midst of a Couple Lawsuits. What Can I Do To Fix My Life?
Q: From Victoria in Anaheim: Dorothy, I need help as quickly as possible. My life is unraveling and on top of many health challenges, I have now discovered that my new residence is full of toxicity and even more chemicals than the place I just vacated. I need to sue these people and I just finished my lawsuit against the other place and am in the midst of the hit and run lawsuit. What can I do to fix my life?
A: Victoria, it appears to me that you are stuck in the game called life and that you are playing the role of victim.
I believe: Life is a game we choose to play before we incarnate on this beautiful planet. We choose whom we want to play it with. We not only make up the game and ask others to participate in it with us, we set the rules in motion. After having been caught up in the game for so long and played it as a victim and a loser, I now know that since we have made it up we can change the rules any time we choose to, once we recognize that it is only a game.
Like you, I once was so caught up in the game of being a victim. I played this role very well. I also played the “Life is not fair” game, the “I don’t fit in” game, the “nobody can hear me” game, the “I’ll never be good enough” game, the “if only I love him enough, he will change” game, the “my number one job is to take full responsibility for my partner’s actions and reactions” game and the game of blaming everyone else for everything that was wrong in my life” game.
What game or games are you caught up in, Victoria? And are you willing to change the rules you have set in motion? Can you think of a really good reason that you didn’t check out your new residence to see if it was toxic before you moved in? Or could it just be that you needed to create more drama?
I have proved to myself that we are the power in our world and that if you choose to change your thoughts, your words and your actions, you can change your reality just like I did. Focus on the good and thank source for the assistance you need to change. It will be provided if you come from a place of trust, faith and knowing that you are the power in your world.
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